On the second Sunday in May, American children of all ages
treat their mothers to something special. It is the one day out of
the year when children, young and old, try to show in a tangible
way how much they appreciate their mothers.
England was one of the first countries to set aside a day to
recognize mothers. In the eighteenth century when many people
worked as household servants for the rich, "Mothering
Sunday" was reserved for them to return home to be with
their mothers. Though this custom stopped when the Industrial
Revolution altered the working and living patterns of the people,
one Sunday for Mothers was established as a holiday in the
twentieth century.
In the United States, Mother's Day did not become an official
holiday until 1915. Its establishment was due largely to the
perseverance and love of one daughter, Anna Jarvis. Anna's mother
had provided strength and support as the family made their home
in West Virginia and Philadelphia, Pennsylvania where her father
served as a minister. As a girl, Anna had helped her mother take
care of her garden, mostly filled with white carnations, her
mother's favorite flower. When Mrs. Jarvis died on May 5, 1905,
Anna was determined to honor her. She asked the minister at her
church in West Virginia to give a sermon in her mother's memory.
On the same Sunday in Philadelphia, their minister honored Mrs.
Jarvis and all mothers with a special Mother's Day service. Anna
Jarvis began writing to congressmen, asking them to set aside a
day to honor mothers. In 1910, the governor of West Virginia
proclaimed the second Sunday in May as Mother's Day and a year
later every state celebrated it.
On Mother's Day morning some American children follow the
tradition of serving their mothers breakfast in bed. Other
children will give their mothers gifts which they have made
themselves or bought in stores. Adults give their mothers red
carnations, the official Mother's Day flower. If their mothers
are deceased they may bring white carnations to their grave
sites. This is the busiest day of the year for American
restaurants. On her special day, family members do not want Mom
to cook dinner!