St. Valentine's Day has roots in several different legends
that have found their way to us through the ages. One of the
earliest popular symbols of the day is Cupid, the Roman god of
love, who is represented by the image of a young boy with bow and
arrow.
Three hundred years after the death of Jesus Christ, the Roman
emperors still demanded that everyone believe in the Roman gods.
Valentine, a Christian priest, had been thrown in prison for his
teachings. On February 14, Valentine was beheaded, not only
because he was a Christian, but also because he had performed a
miracle. He supposedly cured the jailer's daughter of her
blindness. The night before he was executed, he wrote the
jailer's daughter a farewell letter, signing it "From Your
Valentine." Another legend tells us that this same
Valentine, well-loved by all, received notes to his jail cell from
children and friends who missed him.
Another Valentine was an Italian bishop who lived at about the
same time, AD 200. He was imprisoned because he secretly married couples,
contrary to the laws of the Roman emperor. Some legends say he
was burned at the stake.
February 14 was also a Roman holiday, held in honor of a
goddess. Young men randomly chose the name of a young girl to
escort to the festivities. The custom of choosing a sweetheart on
this date spread through Europe in the Middle Ages, and then to
the early American colonies. Throughout the ages, people also
believed that birds picked their mates on February 14!
In AD 496 Sain Pope Gelasius I named February 14 as
"Valentine's Day". Although it's not an official holiday,
most Americans observe this day.
Whatever the odd mixture of origins, St. Valentine's Day is
now a day for sweethearts. It is the day that you show your
friend or loved one that you care. You can send candy to someone
you think is special. Or you can send roses, the flower of love.
Most people send "valentines," a greeting card named
after the notes that St. Valentine received in jail. Valentines
can be sentimental, romantic and heartfelt. They can be funny
and friendly. If the sender is shy, valentines can be anonymous.
Americans of all ages love to send and receive valentines.
Handmade valentines created by cutting hearts out of colored
paper, show that a lot of thought was put into making them
personal. Valentines can be heart-shaped, or have hearts, the
symbol of love, on them. In elementary schools children make
valentines for their classmates and put them in a large decorated
box, similar to a mailbox. On February 14, the teacher opens the
box and distributes the valentines to each student. After the
students read their valentines they have a small party with
refreshments.
For teenagers and adults, major newspapers throughout the
country have a Valentine's Day offer. Anyone can send in a
message, for a small fee of course, destined for a would-be
sweetheart, a good friend, an acquaintance or even a spouse of
fifty years. The message is printed in a special section of the
newspaper on February 14.